(Loo again) Hei Suw! You realise that I know a thing or two about reflexology and aromatherapy via osmosis from my mother who's taken courses in them. I'll definately give you some pointers...ooh, and how about a stimulating hand massage ;) It'd be fantastic to see you again-you'll have to give me a date to keep free, my rota is erratic to say the least at the moment! For the time being I suggest you track down a copy of the book 'The Fragrant Pharmacy'. It which describes pretty much everything you could ever do with essential oils-the history, a handy directory of oils, growing the relevent herbs if you can be bothered, cooking with oils (!) etc. An absolute must have. And I'm not being paid for this advertising.